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Wednesday, November 3, 2010
I Can Help Wednesday Because Anthony L. Lewis Knows Best!
OK so today is Wednesday and I can help if you let me. So tell me what is on your mind and let me be your healer!
Today's question is number 34 as requested by my friend Joceylne. So here it is:
How Long do you think you could tolerate spending virtually every minute of every day with your partner? Assume you would work together, eat together, play together, and sleep together. Which one of you needs more time apart?
Been there, done that when he was diagnosed last year. We went from him being on the road 90% of the month down to 24/7. This was for 10 months ... lol. We did ok did our own space thing within the house. I think it probably was harder on him then on me, because I am used to being home with someone always around. He on the other hand went from being alone in an 18 wheeler with just a dog to living full time with 5 females in the house. We obviously survived the year ... lol
Well the thing with me is I am a peoples person. So I LOVE to be around people and socialize all day. The thing with my wife is she is the opposite. She loves to be by her self and doesn't really speak that much. So I think we maybe be able to last a good while together but then it might drive me crazy that she never has anything to say it is might drive her crazy that I talk too much! So I would say that we could be able to last maybe two weeks together everyday hour on hour. And I think the person that needs more time apart between my self and my wife would actually be her. She is a loner at heart. It's her thing to come home from work and just go into the bed room or living room by her self and be alone. And those are my answers And Now Your Momma Knows!
Hey Linda good morning! But the question is saying hypothetically if you had to be around that person every minute of the day without your own space in the house. But your answer would probably still be the same right?
Yep .. our house is not that big, so there is never total seclusion from the other. It can be straining at times. However, when you posed your question you did not specify that it may be confined to one room where a bathroom may be the only escape .. lol
To address your comment, every relationship should have differences between the two people. The differences is what balances the relationship rather then have one side of the scales completely dominant. It's ying/yang thing :)
I would have to agree with you regarding your last section of your comment But I do not totally agree. I believe the ying and yang thing is like the saying opposites attract. But how long is my question? I think it it more about chemistry than anything no matter what two people are together. You can probably have a saint and a mask murder together as long as their chemistry is perfect together.
Keep in mind that chemistry brought you together, the rest that the relationship brings has to be worked on. From communication, sex, etc... complete opposites have a lesser probability of sustaining the relationship, however, a balance of differences is healthy. There is always an alphas in the relationship, 2 alphas would not work at all with the constant struggle/resistance in most things.
Have to head out for a few hours .. catch you later.
Nada???? What??? Come on Kerrie what's going on in your life these days??? I mean you made it past the count down which was cool and now you are planning on moving into a larger place which is good so what else is up? Where is the excitement lady?
Oh that's cool but you can't say that you have no life. The biggest thing in your life a few weeks back was counting up to Tina coming and now she is here you can say it so easily that you have no life? What's up with that?
Well, Will and I have been together for a while!!! :) We were friends, than we worked together, and now we live together. So I guess I could go for quite some time!! Now granted we don't spend EVERY second together at this point, but we worked and lived together for almost a year and it wasn't a problem for us! But Ant...I'm great so why wouldn't he want to spend EVERY second with me!!! hahaha
@Tayana but you seem to like to hang back in the day. You and Chamar were at the hip and hand in hand for just friends. We all had our theories on you two lol!
For me I nerver had that problem always enough never too much Your partner should be your best friend someone that you have alot in common with so that you want to spend alot of time with that person for me clingy is when the other person ...trys to stop you from what you want to do to spend time with them.
That is the perfect set of words to describe it Justin. Once a woman gets to that point it is a bit too much for me. I guess my wife is the exact opposite. She would let me get out and do what I want almost every day because she loves her space so much.
sorry im a lil late lol... well i dont think neither of us can tolerate spendin every second of our lives together im sure we start fightin after a while i do believe everyone needs their own lil space...
LOL! Well stay tuned to my page. Every day I will be posting a different question. I'm having people pick a number from 1 to 243 and I will pick that numbers question. Would you like to pick a number for tomorrow? We already used 13, 34 and 239.
And I have been adding input from people from facebook because I am realizing that there are so many people that only use their phones for going online and most phones can not go on to this blog site.
I knw after being wit him all I'm going to need a break other wise I'ma have him sleeping on the couch or taking a trip to the mall I have to have time to miss him
Today's question is number 34 as requested by my friend Joceylne. So here it is:
ReplyDeleteHow Long do you think you could tolerate spending virtually every minute of every day with your partner? Assume you would work together, eat together, play together, and sleep together. Which one of you needs more time apart?
Been there, done that when he was diagnosed last year. We went from him being on the road 90% of the month down to 24/7. This was for 10 months ... lol. We did ok did our own space thing within the house. I think it probably was harder on him then on me, because I am used to being home with someone always around. He on the other hand went from being alone in an 18 wheeler with just a dog to living full time with 5 females in the house. We obviously survived the year ... lol
ReplyDeleteWell the thing with me is I am a peoples person. So I LOVE to be around people and socialize all day. The thing with my wife is she is the opposite. She loves to be by her self and doesn't really speak that much. So I think we maybe be able to last a good while together but then it might drive me crazy that she never has anything to say it is might drive her crazy that I talk too much! So I would say that we could be able to last maybe two weeks together everyday hour on hour. And I think the person that needs more time apart between my self and my wife would actually be her. She is a loner at heart. It's her thing to come home from work and just go into the bed room or living room by her self and be alone. And those are my answers And Now Your Momma Knows!
ReplyDeleteHey Linda good morning! But the question is saying hypothetically if you had to be around that person every minute of the day without your own space in the house. But your answer would probably still be the same right?
ReplyDeleteYep .. our house is not that big, so there is never total seclusion from the other. It can be straining at times. However, when you posed your question you did not specify that it may be confined to one room where a bathroom may be the only escape .. lol
ReplyDeleteTo address your comment, every relationship should have differences between the two people. The differences is what balances the relationship rather then have one side of the scales completely dominant. It's ying/yang thing :)
I would have to agree with you regarding your last section of your comment But I do not totally agree. I believe the ying and yang thing is like the saying opposites attract. But how long is my question? I think it it more about chemistry than anything no matter what two people are together. You can probably have a saint and a mask murder together as long as their chemistry is perfect together.
ReplyDeleteKeep in mind that chemistry brought you together, the rest that the relationship brings has to be worked on. From communication, sex, etc... complete opposites have a lesser probability of sustaining the relationship, however, a balance of differences is healthy. There is always an alphas in the relationship, 2 alphas would not work at all with the constant struggle/resistance in most things.
ReplyDeleteHave to head out for a few hours .. catch you later.
morning All!!!!
ReplyDeletenot every moment, maybe some
That was some really good words Linda. You will be missed until you return.
ReplyDeleteAnd what's up Kerrberr?
ReplyDeletenada!
ReplyDeleteNada???? What??? Come on Kerrie what's going on in your life these days??? I mean you made it past the count down which was cool and now you are planning on moving into a larger place which is good so what else is up? Where is the excitement lady?
ReplyDeleteno excitement:( no life:(
ReplyDeletelolol!!!! i work, i go home!, i wake up and do it all again!!!
ReplyDeleteHey on Saturday i am seeing Jeffrey!
Oh that's cool but you can't say that you have no life. The biggest thing in your life a few weeks back was counting up to Tina coming and now she is here you can say it so easily that you have no life? What's up with that?
ReplyDeleteI NEED SPACE BOTTOMLINE!!!! I don’t do clingy! We CANNOT work 2gether! NO! LOL
ReplyDeleteSo then how long would it take you to break? A few minutes/hours/days or what?
ReplyDeleteWell, Will and I have been together for a while!!! :) We were friends, than we worked together, and now we live together. So I guess I could go for quite some time!! Now granted we don't spend EVERY second together at this point, but we worked and lived together for almost a year and it wasn't a problem for us! But Ant...I'm great so why wouldn't he want to spend EVERY second with me!!! hahaha
ReplyDeleteLOL! Now that is the question L.J. :)
ReplyDeleteA FEW MINUTES!!! LOL
ReplyDeleteSince I live inside my own head I could ignore someone sitting right next to me
ReplyDelete@Tayana but you seem to like to hang back in the day. You and Chamar were at the hip and hand in hand for just friends. We all had our theories on you two lol!
ReplyDeleteWhatever Tony! We are friends and that's what it is! Lol
ReplyDeleteI know that and again we are talking about over 20 years ago but I'm just saying lol!
ReplyDelete2 weeks
ReplyDeleteThe same as me Kiki... Hey I hope your not just copying me!!
ReplyDeletewhateva...I love a lot of qt with my significant other, but every minute of every day? It nuh happen...need some space at some point.
ReplyDeleteI don't think I could of said it any better!
ReplyDeletethere should always be "me time" or time with friends. youll get sick of eachother very soon if yall keep breathin eachothers air
ReplyDeleteOK that is true but how long could you last hip to hip? And which one of you needs more time apart?
ReplyDeleteFor me I nerver had that problem always enough never too much Your partner should be your best friend someone that you have alot in common with so that you want to spend alot of time with that person
ReplyDeletefor me clingy is when the other person ...trys to stop you from what you want to do to spend time with them.
That is the perfect set of words to describe it Justin. Once a woman gets to that point it is a bit too much for me. I guess my wife is the exact opposite. She would let me get out and do what I want almost every day because she loves her space so much.
ReplyDeletesorry im a lil late lol... well i dont think neither of us can tolerate spendin every second of our lives together im sure we start fightin after a while i do believe everyone needs their own lil space...
ReplyDeleteI feel you Joc.
ReplyDeleteWith every relationship you need a little space from each other. Spending every minute would drive both crazy!!
ReplyDeleteSo true! So how long would it take you to say enough is enough as the hypothetical question ask? And who would be the first to break?
ReplyDeleteI would say about a year and a half
ReplyDeleteDAMN! And I said two weeks lol!!!
ReplyDeleteCTFU!!!!
ReplyDeleteHey man I don't know about you but after two weeks straight of spending every minute with my wife I think I would crack!!!
ReplyDeleteOh u mean literally?? Shiiiiittttttt 3 days!!!!!
ReplyDeleteYeah it's just a hypothetical question lol!
ReplyDeleteI think a lot of people took it that way at first lol!
ReplyDeleteJust a couple days longer
ReplyDeleteLOL! Well stay tuned to my page. Every day I will be posting a different question. I'm having people pick a number from 1 to 243 and I will pick that numbers question. Would you like to pick a number for tomorrow? We already used 13, 34 and 239.
ReplyDelete9
ReplyDeleteOk then tomorrow 9 it is!
ReplyDeletecopied from facebook???? I think i am done with this blog thing!
ReplyDeleteNooooooooooooooo Kerr ... you can't leave me in blog limbo! lol
ReplyDeleteHey sorry to be gone for so long ladies but I was putting my wife engine back together. NO really her car engine!
ReplyDeleteAnd I have been adding input from people from facebook because I am realizing that there are so many people that only use their phones for going online and most phones can not go on to this blog site.
ReplyDeleteI knw after being wit him all I'm going to need a break other wise I'ma have him sleeping on the couch or taking a trip to the mall I have to have time to miss him
ReplyDeleteme and jeff could do it......we have a code word when we've had enough of each other ;)
ReplyDeleteI think I know what that word is Pauline and it starts with a A lol!
ReplyDelete