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Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Review Tuesday!
So I am sure we all have a short week this week so let's live it up!!!
OK so today on face book I asked for people to give me a number and I would use that for today's question. Well three people wrote in so today I am going to post up three question. And Now Your Momma Knows!
Are you willing to change your appearance to make yourself more attractive to your partner, or do you feel your partner should love you just the way you are? For example, how much are you willing to modify your hairstyle or change the way you dress?
111 Well if I needed to change my appearance to make myself more attractive for my partner I would but I am always working on my appearance to make myself more attractive for me so my partner gets to enjoy not having to ask me to work on my appearance. If anything maybe I have certain things that I wear that she may not be so into. Like my non boxer under wear. She hates when I wear those things lol
111 he must love me the wayy i m thts how i got him however im alwys up for a change modifiing my hair or clothes is always fun n e ways noone likes a plain chik everryday.. but as far as plaastic surgery breast implants ect aint happenin!
111 Which partner? I believe my appearance is well rounded so I don't need to change it to get anyone's approval, if she doesn't she can get to stepping because I change for no one but myself.
111 I don't see a problem with adding new pieces to your wardrobe, wearing your hair differently at times, etc. Don't see it as a big deal. As long as it isn't surgery or something insane, what is wrong with actually trying to be more attractive to ur partner?
111 OK there are a lot of good answers so let me ask this question and it is directed mostly to the ladies since it seems to me in my experience this happens more to you. So what if you were, let's say really thin when your man met you and you put on a considerable amount of weight after some time of being with him. How important is it for you to improve on your bodies appearance for your partner? Talk To Me!
111 believe the same same way i got him is the same way I have to keep him... It's important to keep my man happy bcuz if the situation was turned around I would want him to respect my wishes.. Ill drop a few pounds for my baby lol
111 It's in your best interest to lose some weight... for your health and relationship... lol. But people should also understand that people are going to gain weight. It's just going to happen....especially women. Dudes should already know that.
At some point in time ya'll both gonna be saggy and wrinkled and your physical appearance will be different, but your personality should be the same. The physical is guaranteed to go.
111 To be honest I do hear you Angel but your statement doesn't have to be the case if a person really didn't want it to. I'm sure we all seen on the news the 80 year old grand mom that works out and she looks AMAZING!!! Yeah I said 80 years old! So yeah as we get older we are all going to gain weight and get saggy BUT that is only if we want our selves to. So just using older age as an excuse is not acceptable to me.
hey if you feel bad, there are still a couple of heavy items that never made it up the stairs!!! We would love the help!!!.....just throwing it out there.....
If you enter a marriage and plan to live by til death do you part and you want your spouse to be bench pressing 150 at 80 and will call anything less than that an excuse, you need to let that person know before marriage that you want them to be the exception to the rule.
111 You don't have to bench 150 to look a certain way but I actually bench 215 on the regular lol! But it's all called maintaining which most people have NO CLUE that it really doesn't take much at all. But I think generally most people just feel not to look in to it at all.
I'm always trying to modify and upgrade myself. I love me the way I am and I know people do to. But I just think I need some minor twinking to complete what I want done.
That's what that grandmother bench presses.... 150. She looks good too.
If a dude is expecting me to look like that at 80, he can get the hell on now if he still worrying about the physical after decades together, he has a serious problem.. lol
LOL well I can show a person what to do that is very simple and so that they would never gain anymore weight again. Remember I said they won't gain weight but I didn't say that they will lose weight. But of course it is up to the person to actually want to. Look at my wife, she see me almost do some type of work out everyday and she never joins in or ask what should she do. And we have our own Weight Room in our house. So again it is all on you if that is what you want.
111 I'm reading about this woman and she mainly eats boiled egg whites, chicken, vegetables, and a liquid egg white drink. She runs 80 miles a week....
111 @Angel that lady looked GREAT! She was above average on some type of body building stuff lol! But see I think if a person doesn't care how they look IF their partner does then they have a problem and if I was single and a woman told me what you just said she wouldn't be with me.
111 She is a beast to do all of that at that age BUT who said that no one else could? I think it is so normal to just think at a older age there is no point to be in shape but I think that mainly comes from the people who are younger and not in shape. I always say "you won't know till you go!
111 If a woman said that she is going to no longer care what she looks like as she gets older then I wouldn't be with her and that is primarily what you were saying.
111 I didn't say no one else could, but to have that as an expectation is unreasonable given the illnesses and money situation of many seniors. And for the seniors who don't have those problems, some of them just want to chill after busting their ass for 50 plus years.
111 But it all comes down to who you are with and how they love you. But I think DK and Kim said something very important, as long as you keep up to the way they met you then they can not complain about how you look.
No that's not what i said.... primarily or otherwise. I said if a dude expects me to look that grandmother then he can get the hell on. That woman looks better than women fifty years younger than her.
111 I just started back jogginbg and doing my tae bo not for any man but for myself.... remaining healthy and looking good is sumthing u have 2 want for urself bcuz if not then ur spouse or significant other can hang it up. exercise of sum form is always good for the body. it lowers ur risks of osteoporosis and other bone diseases it also reduces the risks or alkzimers disease bcuz of the constance brain activities :-)
Well Angel I see where this is going and I am going to avoid it but I am just saying that you were insinuating that you would say that to a guy. But of course I have told a woman that I was involved with about their weight. Hell when I started dating my wife their was a period where I didn't go to the gym for 7 MONTHS STRAIGHT!!! And I started to gain weight and get saggy as you call it. All it took was for my wife to say "Hey your myspace page looks like false advertisement! And It Was On!!! That was like 3 years ago and I can say that I never looked like that again lol
111 Yeah it was a good one and I took it to heart! But I work out for me. I think at that point in my life I just got really lazy and just liked to relax and play video games. Plus I was no longer single so hitting the clus and messing with all the ladies no longer exist for me and plus it was turning into winter time so I wasn't going to be running around with my shirt off.
111 No she made one comment over three years ago. I do what I do so when I look in the mirror the other me can't say "look at you man, false advertisement!!! lol!
7 I want to fly outta state with this dude, get married, come back, be like I'S MARRIED NOW, and then have a big ol party!!! I don't want 1000 ppl, 20 bridesmaids, bickering about dresses, all that complaining! I want it 2 b me & him!
No, it's not important to me at all. There are certain things i am very cheap with and weddings is one of them. Luckily i am marrying someone who is just as cheap as i am! Lol
We have gone back and forth between something very small or just heading to the JP and leaving on a really nice honeymoon.
I think almost everyone who has been married before would not care about their next wedding as much just like the last three of us that commented the same way. I did the big wedding thing with my current wife because it was what she wanted. But it really didn't matter so much to me. But I say if a person doesn't really care for the big wedding they should fly out to a nice all inclusive Island package and get married on the beach and enjoy their honeymoon their.
I was cheap with my first wedding too..... lol! I have actually entertained spending thousands on a wedding this time around but deep down i really feel like if i'm gonna spend thousands, it should be on me and him.
When I got married the wedding was right but the man was wrong....When I get married again it depends on what my man wants...in reality it don't matter to me..my ex wanted a big wedding I just saw a bunch of money wasted on something that lasted for an half hour
The ceremony lasted for an half hour yes something made me want to marry him I was more infatuated and in love with the marriage proposal than I was with the man...
7 My last wedding which was a year and a half ago was perfect actually. I most all of my friends and family were there. My wife's family were there in full effect to her liking and the place was pretty big and we even got to get married outside on a day it was suppose to rain but it never did! The wedding was on my grand fathers birthday who passed away and was so important too! My kids were in the wedding as well. Even the honeymoon was amazing! We went to Jamaica to a all inclusive resort. I even got to go scuba diving which was one of the greatest things I have ever done in my life!!! But all of that said it wouldn't have really mattered to me at all as long as we just gotten married. It is really just about those two people who will share one special kiss after they exchange their words to one another. And Now Your Momma Knows!
So I took a peek at question 77 and it is a really good one. I know I said I would post it today but it is getting late and most people are on here during the day so I will save it for first thing tomorrow. But if you have a number in mind that you would like me to choose as a question, post it on my page tomorrow morning and I will post it in the order of whose numbers were posted first. And Now Your Momma Knows!
Well when I get married it will be my first so I believe its important that both of us are happy. I wouldnt go broke over it but I do want a nice memorable wedding with all my family & friends bcuz that will be a special day for not just me but my loved ones as well. I do know I want a four layer cake tho lol in the summer time so that it can be outside with photographers as well, then we gonna head of to our honeymoon ;-)
OK so today on face book I asked for people to give me a number and I would use that for today's question. Well three people wrote in so today I am going to post up three question. And Now Your Momma Knows!
ReplyDeleteNumber 111 from The Book Of Questions Love&Sex:
ReplyDeleteAre you willing to change your appearance to make yourself more attractive to your partner, or do you feel your partner should love you just the way you are? For example, how much are you willing to modify your hairstyle or change the way you dress?
111
ReplyDeleteHell no. You had better love me just the way I am or you are outta luck.
111
ReplyDeleteWell if I needed to change my appearance to make myself more attractive for my partner I would but I am always working on my appearance to make myself more attractive for me so my partner gets to enjoy not having to ask me to work on my appearance. If anything maybe I have certain things that I wear that she may not be so into. Like my non boxer under wear. She hates when I wear those things lol
111
ReplyDeletehe must love me the wayy i m thts how i got him however im alwys up for a change modifiing my hair or clothes is always fun n e ways noone likes a plain chik everryday.. but as far as plaastic surgery breast implants ect aint happenin!
111
ReplyDeleteAs long as he pay for the props/dressing/hairdos etc I have no prob switching it up. but I will not change ME 4 no one! I love dress up!!
111
ReplyDeleteWhich partner? I believe my appearance is well rounded so I don't need to change it to get anyone's approval, if she doesn't she can get to stepping because I change for no one but myself.
111
ReplyDeleteI don't see a problem with adding new pieces to your wardrobe, wearing your hair differently at times, etc. Don't see it as a big deal. As long as it isn't surgery or something insane, what is wrong with actually trying to be more attractive to ur partner?
111
ReplyDeleteExactly Danielle! Now if a mofo acting like Ike Turner I would have 2 decline on all offers!!!
lmbo!!! @Tayana
ReplyDelete111
ReplyDeleteOK there are a lot of good answers so let me ask this question and it is directed mostly to the ladies since it seems to me in my experience this happens more to you. So what if you were, let's say really thin when your man met you and you put on a considerable amount of weight after some time of being with him. How important is it for you to improve on your bodies appearance for your partner? Talk To Me!
111
ReplyDeletebelieve the same same way i got him is the same way I have to keep him... It's important to keep my man happy bcuz if the situation was turned around I would want him to respect my wishes.. Ill drop a few pounds for my baby lol
111
ReplyDeleteIt's in your best interest to lose some weight... for your health and relationship... lol. But people should also understand that people are going to gain weight. It's just going to happen....especially women. Dudes should already know that.
At some point in time ya'll both gonna be saggy and wrinkled and your physical appearance will be different, but your personality should be the same. The physical is guaranteed to go.
111
ReplyDeleteIt all depends on his approach, how much he is willing 2 b supportive of the situation. Bcuz men have weight issues too!
111
ReplyDeleteTo be honest I do hear you Angel but your statement doesn't have to be the case if a person really didn't want it to. I'm sure we all seen on the news the 80 year old grand mom that works out and she looks AMAZING!!! Yeah I said 80 years old! So yeah as we get older we are all going to gain weight and get saggy BUT that is only if we want our selves to. So just using older age as an excuse is not acceptable to me.
they all put 111.....ONLY that question has been asked!!!
ReplyDeleteLove me the way i am, or leave me the hell alone!
We have been going on and on with that question that I didn't get to the other two yet but I will soon.
ReplyDeletehey if you feel bad, there are still a couple of heavy items that never made it up the stairs!!! We would love the help!!!.....just throwing it out there.....
ReplyDeleteSo you still have things not in your house?
ReplyDeleteCmon.... That woman is the exception! Lol
ReplyDeleteIf you enter a marriage and plan to live by til death do you part and you want your spouse to be bench pressing 150 at 80 and will call anything less than that an excuse, you need to let that person know before marriage that you want them to be the exception to the rule.
That's why my ass stays fat. That way they cant complain in the end cause I have always been that way.
ReplyDelete111
ReplyDeleteYou don't have to bench 150 to look a certain way but I actually bench 215 on the regular lol! But it's all called maintaining which most people have NO CLUE that it really doesn't take much at all. But I think generally most people just feel not to look in to it at all.
111
ReplyDelete@Kim lol! I love you either way :)
111
ReplyDeleteTell me about it. You know how hard it is to keep up this girlish figure. Very hard.
I'm always trying to modify and upgrade myself. I love me the way I am and I know people do to. But I just think I need some minor twinking to complete what I want done.
ReplyDeleteThat's what that grandmother bench presses.... 150. She looks good too.
ReplyDeleteIf a dude is expecting me to look like that at 80, he can get the hell on now if he still worrying about the physical after decades together, he has a serious problem.. lol
LOL well I can show a person what to do that is very simple and so that they would never gain anymore weight again. Remember I said they won't gain weight but I didn't say that they will lose weight. But of course it is up to the person to actually want to. Look at my wife, she see me almost do some type of work out everyday and she never joins in or ask what should she do. And we have our own Weight Room in our house. So again it is all on you if that is what you want.
ReplyDelete111
ReplyDeleteI'm reading about this woman and she mainly eats boiled egg whites, chicken, vegetables, and a liquid egg white drink. She runs 80 miles a week....
111
ReplyDelete@Angel that lady looked GREAT! She was above average on some type of body building stuff lol! But see I think if a person doesn't care how they look IF their partner does then they have a problem and if I was single and a woman told me what you just said she wouldn't be with me.
111
ReplyDeleteShe is a beast to do all of that at that age BUT who said that no one else could? I think it is so normal to just think at a older age there is no point to be in shape but I think that mainly comes from the people who are younger and not in shape. I always say "you won't know till you go!
The woman's body is better than most 20 year olds!
ReplyDeleteIf a woman told you that she doesn't want to be damn near a bodybuilder at 80, you wouldn't want to be with her? More power to you then.... lol
111
ReplyDeleteIf a woman said that she is going to no longer care what she looks like as she gets older then I wouldn't be with her and that is primarily what you were saying.
111
ReplyDeleteI didn't say no one else could, but to have that as an expectation is unreasonable given the illnesses and money situation of many seniors. And for the seniors who don't have those problems, some of them just want to chill after busting their ass for 50 plus years.
111
ReplyDeleteBut it all comes down to who you are with and how they love you. But I think DK and Kim said something very important, as long as you keep up to the way they met you then they can not complain about how you look.
No that's not what i said.... primarily or otherwise. I said if a dude expects me to look that grandmother then he can get the hell on. That woman looks better than women fifty years younger than her.
ReplyDelete111
ReplyDeleteHave you ever complained to a woman you were involved with about her weight?
111
ReplyDeleteI just started back jogginbg and doing my tae bo not for any man but for myself.... remaining healthy and looking good is sumthing u have 2 want for urself bcuz if not then ur spouse or significant other can hang it up. exercise of sum form is always good for the body. it lowers ur risks of osteoporosis and other bone diseases it also reduces the risks or alkzimers disease bcuz of the constance brain activities :-)
Well Angel I see where this is going and I am going to avoid it but I am just saying that you were insinuating that you would say that to a guy. But of course I have told a woman that I was involved with about their weight. Hell when I started dating my wife their was a period where I didn't go to the gym for 7 MONTHS STRAIGHT!!! And I started to gain weight and get saggy as you call it. All it took was for my wife to say "Hey your myspace page looks like false advertisement! And It Was On!!! That was like 3 years ago and I can say that I never looked like that again lol
ReplyDelete111
ReplyDeleteLMBO @Anthony false advertisement tho?? lol that was a good one
111
ReplyDeleteYeah it was a good one and I took it to heart! But I work out for me. I think at that point in my life I just got really lazy and just liked to relax and play video games. Plus I was no longer single so hitting the clus and messing with all the ladies no longer exist for me and plus it was turning into winter time so I wasn't going to be running around with my shirt off.
111
ReplyDeletehey well look at u know!!! ur working out and keeping fit so ur wife encouraged u to do wat u doing now :).... thats a good thing
111
ReplyDeleteNo she made one comment over three years ago. I do what I do so when I look in the mirror the other me can't say "look at you man, false advertisement!!! lol!
111
ReplyDeleteOf course? Lol
lol u silly
ReplyDeleteWow I have really been busy today!
ReplyDeleteBut I still need the answers for question 7!
ReplyDelete7
ReplyDeleteIf we had tht type of love tht cldnt wait n our vows to each other were tht strong I'll go ahead n change wht I want to start my life wit him
7
ReplyDeleteNope I don't even want to get married
7
ReplyDeleteI want to fly outta state with this dude, get married, come back, be like I'S MARRIED NOW, and then have a big ol party!!! I don't want 1000 ppl, 20 bridesmaids, bickering about dresses, all that complaining! I want it 2 b me & him!
No, it's not important to me at all. There are certain things i am very cheap with and weddings is one of them. Luckily i am marrying someone who is just as cheap as i am! Lol
ReplyDeleteWe have gone back and forth between something very small or just heading to the JP and leaving on a really nice honeymoon.
I think almost everyone who has been married before would not care about their next wedding as much just like the last three of us that commented the same way. I did the big wedding thing with my current wife because it was what she wanted. But it really didn't matter so much to me. But I say if a person doesn't really care for the big wedding they should fly out to a nice all inclusive Island package and get married on the beach and enjoy their honeymoon their.
ReplyDeleteI was cheap with my first wedding too..... lol! I have actually entertained spending thousands on a wedding this time around but deep down i really feel like if i'm gonna spend thousands, it should be on me and him.
ReplyDeleteWhen I got married the wedding was right but the man was wrong....When I get married again it depends on what my man wants...in reality it don't matter to me..my ex wanted a big wedding I just saw a bunch of money wasted on something that lasted for an half hour
ReplyDelete7
ReplyDeleteA half hour really? Come on, give the man more than that! Something made you want to marry him right Marsha :)
7
ReplyDeleteMy first wedding we were broke! The church was so small when you went in you was out, And when you turned around you was at the reception!
The ceremony lasted for an half hour yes something made me want to marry him I was more infatuated and in love with the marriage proposal than I was with the man...
ReplyDelete7
ReplyDeleteMy last wedding which was a year and a half ago was perfect actually. I most all of my friends and family were there. My wife's family were there in full effect to her liking and the place was pretty big and we even got to get married outside on a day it was suppose to rain but it never did! The wedding was on my grand fathers birthday who passed away and was so important too! My kids were in the wedding as well. Even the honeymoon was amazing! We went to Jamaica to a all inclusive resort. I even got to go scuba diving which was one of the greatest things I have ever done in my life!!! But all of that said it wouldn't have really mattered to me at all as long as we just gotten married. It is really just about those two people who will share one special kiss after they exchange their words to one another. And Now Your Momma Knows!
Lol Crystal yes I know
ReplyDeleteSo I took a peek at question 77 and it is a really good one. I know I said I would post it today but it is getting late and most people are on here during the day so I will save it for first thing tomorrow. But if you have a number in mind that you would like me to choose as a question, post it on my page tomorrow morning and I will post it in the order of whose numbers were posted first. And Now Your Momma Knows!
ReplyDeleteWell when I get married it will be my first so I believe its important that both of us are happy. I wouldnt go broke over it but I do want a nice memorable wedding with all my family & friends bcuz that will be a special day for not just me but my loved ones as well. I do know I want a four layer cake tho lol in the summer time so that it can be outside with photographers as well, then we gonna head of to our honeymoon ;-)
ReplyDelete111
ReplyDeleteWow! tough question. I would change for the right person. finding that person is the ultimate search.
I agree Bob.
ReplyDeleteno they are in the house, just downstairs, when they need to be upstairs!
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