Monday, November 15, 2010

This Is Why I Appreciate You Monday!

OK People so who do you appreciate the most in your life? Who comes across as the people that you can not live with out?

62 comments:

  1. Today's Question is number 26:

    If you caught a long-term relationship virus (LTRV)that would kill you if you stayed in a romantic involvement for more than six months, how do you think your partners would differ from those you now like? Do you think you would end up spending more or less energy on sex and romance?

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  2. My immediate family and the very few friends that have been there for years. We lost my ex-husband last year and never realize just how much it would impact/affect my life with him not here. Some people I don't think you know until after they're gone.

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  3. Define LTRV ~ a damaging relationship or a relationship that have medical implications?

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  4. You know Linda that is a really good question. It took me a while to think of my answer but here it is...

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  5. Ok here is my answer:

    So I think my partners would just be woman that are Extra sexual. And we would have a lot of it all the time so that once the six months were nearing I would feel very fulfilled before the relationship ended.

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  6. OK so today my top appreciate is this: I am thankful for myself. Now I know how most of you are thinking from reading that but let me explain. I am thankful for myself because I have over come some things that I felt I wouldn't be strong enough to over come. I had a very bad mind set for some time now and I started to develop the I Don't Give A Fuck Attitude. But I am happy that I manage to get my mind out of that state and back on to the right path! And this is why I Appreciate Me!

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  7. I am thankful for my mom and dad, Makeda, my daughter, my brother, Ant and the friends he is gonna bring to help us move, my church, Javon, and my friends!

    I don't want to get into a long term relationship...yet! I want to find someone that wants to be with me, and be there for me, not someone who i have to go to ALL the time for they have no car, they have feet and there are buses.....but truly right now i am just intrested in moving!!!!

    And Ant when we move......we are gonna resurect "the Keda Parties"

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  8. Wow thanks Kerrie but I didn't recall saying yes to helping you move yet lol! True Story.

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  9. And Kerrie I guess you are looking for Mr. Right Now instead of Mr. Right. But that is cool. Some times it's good to know what you are not ready to allow into your life.

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  10. I dont want to let anyone in my life!!!! don't want mr right now either! True Story??? what does he have to do with this? Hey i thought it was cute....Shakeem said he ain't helping......

    I am ready to allow someone special into my life, but i have decided, they have to be on my lev el or better..... no more broke ass men!!! I am done with that!

    But uhhhh as for the Mr. Rightr now...maybe previosly.....but not today, or next week, i think new years ai am gonna break my celebacy!

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  11. In the past I had little tolerance for a relationship/potential relationship that did not spark on a few levels, however if there were portions of sexual satisfaction that were lacking I did not continue to engage with them. For the most part there has always been one common aspect that my relationships/partners have possessed and that has been a sexual commonality. I am a bit particular about the willingness to be very oral.

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  12. see Linda i am trying to break the sex-ness in my life, i am celebate, i think since July........ Trying to find someone to connect with, but not on a sex level @ all....and once the guy asks for sex*(as men say...i was kidding) no thery were not, i leave them alone....i want a relationship.....not a sex-partner ONLY....i could get that no-prob!

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  13. lololol...i remeber Keda's parties...wasn't it your friend Kevin?

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  14. any help would be greatly appreciated....cause if we have to end up doing it ourselves....Keda's gonna be pissed, and you already said you would help!

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  15. Ah I said that I would help before you changed the date. I have my kids this week so I will have them this Saturday and we usually go roller skating on Saturday or do something special. Remember I am a on and off father. So if you catch me on my off weeks no problem but my on weeks I can't say that I would be total help.

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  16. I did the celibate thing a few times and for very long stretches, inclusive of a cpl years. However, When getting involved in an actual relationship I do have certain preferences that if they don't exist it would infringe on the quality of the relationship. This is not limited to sex, but other things as well that I prefer with/in a man.

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  17. I did the non sex thing a few times also in my life. I think I got a good couple of weeks under my belt! :)

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  18. But hey if it means anything because of the last time I tried to go a while with out sex it ended up spawning my now five years with out masturbating. So I accomplished something :)

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  19. Hey it's so true! My friend bet me that I couldn't go two months with no sex including The Beating Of The Meat. And well I didn't go two months with out no sex but ever since then I never did the ..... well you know ;}

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  20. Kicked the Habit just took on a whole other meaning ... lol

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  21. Yeah crazy right? But hey I didn't make up the question.

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  22. An again I say ummmm I can't think about an answer

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  23. Can u make this a invalid question... No fun if u can't answer

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  24. Well we can read it really slowly and then just make up a answer that we feel best fits it and go from there :)

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  25. I read it six times n only thing tht came to mind is uuummmmm

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  26. OK so here is my answer once again: I think my partners would just be woman that are Extra sexual. And we would have a lot of it all the time so that once the six months were nearing I would feel very fulfilled before the relationship ended.

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  27. LOL well I guess you have to wait until tomorrow to give a answer to one of these questions :)

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  28. That's a weird question. I guess no relationship can last more then 6 months?

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  29. Hey Mont you were the one that picked the number lol!

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  30. You probably would be better off just having constant one night stands and focus on sex so you don't get attached to any one person.

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  31. If I had a LTRV I would spend more time more energy on sex than romance bcuz the relationship wont be lasting that long anyway smh. As far as how my partner now will differ from my partner then will probably be the sexual experience lol....

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  32. If I caught LTRV which I don't bcuz I always catch the TYV (two year virus) the sexual compatiablity with my partner is always more intense from the last one, but the problem is the communication further down the line. So my answer is the sexual energy should always be more more more never less! But even after all the sex u still need 2 change it up, do things romantic & exciting 2 lead up 2 the sex bcuz it still can get boring! ADVENTURE is mandatory!

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  33. I hear you Tayana but in this situation if you give your heart you are only going to get it broken after six months.

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  34. I don't give heart, sorry! Maybe i'll try again soon.......emotion wise I give about 70% ) :

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  35. I guess that is good for all the guys reading this to know lol!

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  36. Hey im still a good person with great qualities!

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  37. Hey as long as your good qualities are what guys like who the Hell cares about that missing 30% lol!

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  38. @Kerrie just kidnap some guy and make him your love slave! Rope duck tape and all!

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  39. @Tayana oh wait I wasn't suppose to use that word again right?

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  40. Oh Tony u r definitely frisky material 2day! Woooosah!

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  41. Hey some days you have to throw it on them even when they are not ready! Just ask my wife lol!

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  42. I don't think I have to worry about that virus lol

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  43. ummm more energy cause if I love him so much Id do anything to please him.

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  44. wait I dnt know if I get the question. lol

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  45. Yeah it is a very strange question. Just look forward to tomorrows question.

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  46. Its the truth kerrie I don't love anyone enough to want to have a relationship, I'm heartless so its pretty much only one thing for me and we all already know what that is.

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  47. all i can say is BLAME LAMONT!!!!

    And Ant your kids can help too!

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  48. So I wonder what tomorrows question will be. Today's was the strangest hypothetical question by far!

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  49. So you would put the kids to work Kerrie lol! And what city are you all moving to?

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