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Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Book Of Questions Love&Sex number 227:
If you were to give advice to someone a few years younger than you about the best way to find a mate, what would you recommend?
I told my little cousin this the other day...to date, dont become attached to one..dont put all ur eggs in one basket they say...get to really know a guy before u enter into a relationship...the whole ''talking'' phase is the time spent figuring if u wanna b with that person...so use that time well, know what u want and stick with it...if there is a habit u dont like, be honest with urself...u cant change a person and accepting how they are now because u have the mentality ''they will change later'' always backfires...love urself first so ur not dependent on others to love you...and never ever settle for less than what u deserve....be able to bend and forgive and compromise but never naive , dumb or blind...when u look for a mate it should b one who completes you or is a better reflection of urself....who invest the same if not more into you...understanding the difference btw a crush, lust, and pure love...that takes years of observation...look for that one that makes u smile, who uplifts you, who ur future would b dim without....ur shoulder, ur strength and ur support, ur backup and friend... ok im done texting...lol if i was home on the computer i would write more
If u got something good hold on to it bcuz true love is hard 2 find so therefore if its real and true give it all u got :-).... When u get ur heart broke take it as a lesson learned move on and kno not 2 make the same mistakes that caused ur last break-up. Never involve too many ppl in ur relationship bcuz it causes alot of confusion and problems...
Well I did help out with The Anthony L. Lewis New Marriage System yesterday but if you missed it here it is again: I think people should be engaged for about three years prior to marriage and after the second year they should move in together! This way you could really see if you love this person enough to want to be with them forever.
Koota said it all...I have friends who would tell you to compromise on some of those things because you'll never find someone who embodies them all. But I think those are the very things you need to pay attention to and should never compromise on. They are essential to any healthy, stable, loving relationship. Just love alone isn't going to cut it. Well said Koota :-)
I think one tip that can help keep a relationship alive with put having to work too hard is if BOTH parties have two main things that they BOTH view extremely high in a relationship and if they BOTH feel the same and are BOTH on the same page with those two things. Like for example let's say my two are Personal Connection and Sexual Chemistry.
OK so now I am on my lunch break and what is there for me to do but sit at my desk. So here I am sitting at my desk. I miss the warm weather where I could lay in my car and sleep.
I told my little cousin this the other day...to date, dont become attached to one..dont put all ur eggs in one basket they say...get to really know a guy before u enter into a relationship...the whole ''talking'' phase is the time spent figuring if u wanna b with that person...so use that time well, know what u want and stick with it...if there is a habit u dont like, be honest with urself...u cant change a person and accepting how they are now because u have the mentality ''they will change later'' always backfires...love urself first so ur not dependent on others to love you...and never ever settle for less than what u deserve....be able to bend and forgive and compromise but never naive , dumb or blind...when u look for a mate it should b one who completes you or is a better reflection of urself....who invest the same if not more into you...understanding the difference btw a crush, lust, and pure love...that takes years of observation...look for that one that makes u smile, who uplifts you, who ur future would b dim without....ur shoulder, ur strength and ur support, ur backup and friend...
ReplyDeleteok im done texting...lol if i was home on the computer i would write more
That was really well said Koota. I think you covered EVERYTHING that needs to be said regarding this! OK what is the number for the next question? lol
ReplyDeleteLol idk...but i need to ask the question...got all this good advice and still single...geesh!
ReplyDeleteWell I guess you just didn't find someone that checks out to everything under your description that you just gave.
ReplyDeleteExactly...and the biggest point i missed...PATIENCE! is very important to have
ReplyDeleteThat is soooo true.
ReplyDeleteHello there! I would recommend a main boo, and 2 stragglers lmao!
ReplyDelete@Tayana WOW!!! LOl
ReplyDeleteThey can't kno about each other, r u kidding me? Lol
ReplyDeleteT you should write a book giving out your tips lol
ReplyDeleteIf u got something good hold on to it bcuz true love is hard 2 find so therefore if its real and true give it all u got :-).... When u get ur heart broke take it as a lesson learned move on and kno not 2 make the same mistakes that caused ur last break-up. Never involve too many ppl in ur relationship bcuz it causes alot of confusion and problems...
ReplyDeleteWell I did help out with The Anthony L. Lewis New Marriage System yesterday but if you missed it here it is again: I think people should be engaged for about three years prior to marriage and after the second year they should move in together! This way you could really see if you love this person enough to want to be with them forever.
ReplyDeleteI am Tony, 4real...
ReplyDeleteKoota said it all...I have friends who would tell you to compromise on some of those things because you'll never find someone who embodies them all. But I think those are the very things you need to pay attention to and should never compromise on. They are essential to any healthy, stable, loving relationship. Just love alone isn't going to cut it. Well said Koota :-)
ReplyDeleteI think one tip that can help keep a relationship alive with put having to work too hard is if BOTH parties have two main things that they BOTH view extremely high in a relationship and if they BOTH feel the same and are BOTH on the same page with those two things. Like for example let's say my two are Personal Connection and Sexual Chemistry.
ReplyDeleteOK so now I am on my lunch break and what is there for me to do but sit at my desk. So here I am sitting at my desk. I miss the warm weather where I could lay in my car and sleep.
ReplyDeleteWho AM I? Am I the man that I once was or am I the man that I want to be? Talk To Me!
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