Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Book Of Question Love&Sex number 48 picked by X-Tina:

What do you think it would be like to spend a few days with your lover and not communicate verbally?

39 comments:

  1. Hell that wouldn't be so hard for me since my wife is not the speaking type. Most of the time we never share words anyways. I can imagine what runs through her head all the time now"{Will He Please Shut Up}!!!"

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  2. I can't see her as well cuz if I see and not speak so type of argument will arouse..lol.. Imagine she come home for work and I don't say anything!! Yea ok..lol..but if we were away from each other it will work cuz distance make the heart grow fonder

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  3. exciting!!! lol Body language n facial expressions r half of communication. But to rely on them soley, would be a way to better understand each other just simply by paying closer atttention, it could bring two people closer together

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  4. I totally agree with you Steph. Like I could come home and drop my clothes and she would Totally know whats on my mind with out me having to say a word ;} that's my Evil Smiley Face but you already know that!

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  5. WELL EVERYONE KNOWS THAT ONE ANT LOL

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  6. being able to undrstand each other beta by body language I'm all dwn for it......being able to tell if he had a ruff day, good day needs to talk or be held...guys dnt like to express thmselves...I thinnk tht wld b great for couples

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  7. Damn that would be fantastic!!!

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  8. NON VERBAL COMMUNICATION IS VERY KEY.... YOU CAN TELL A LOT ABOUT A PERSON JUST BY WATCHING, BODY TONES, FACIAL EXPRESSIONS AND ETC...... HELL IF I WALK IN THE HOUSE AND WINK MY EYE AND GIVE THAT SEXY LOOK WITHOUT SAYING A WORD HE BETTER KNOW IT'S PANTY DROPP'N TIME :)

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  9. I guess I must talk to damn much huh? I need to be verbal, sure I don't have to but I like to talk. It kind of hurts me a little that I don't have as much conversations with my wife as much as I would like to ;{

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  10. Am the only one here that likes to talk? I mean I know it is nice to have your peace and quiet at times but I love to have conversations. It actually upsets me a bit that my wife and I do not speak that much :(

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  11. ANTHONY I LOVE TO TALK AND A LOT......... COMMUNICATION IS A VERY KEY FACTOR IN ANY RELATIONSHIP WHETHER VERBAL OR NON VERBAL..... I LOVE EXPRESSING MY FEELINGS AND JUST TALKIN POINT BLANK

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  12. So your point DK, are you saying that you should be my wife? ;}

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  13. O.M.G!!! UR A MESS I WAS JUST LETTING U KNOW THAT UR NOT THE ONLY WHO LOVES TO TALK..... I DO AS WELL BUT ALSO LETTING U KNOW HOW KEY COMMUNICATION IS. WE NEED TO COMMUNICATE ON ALL LEVELS AT SOME POINT AND TIME, THATS HOW WE LEARN EACH OTHER, UNDERSTAND ONE ANOTHER....... :}

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  14. So true and ok ok I guess I will take it as that is what you meant ;}

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  15. i think it would be awesome .... dont get me wrong i love to talk to but when theres something to be said it kinda hard to find some one i want to talk to (cause as far as gir lets face it, im weird) so convos with normally people is irritating (that y i love my headphones :)

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  16. @Black lol! Maybe you just have had conversations with the right man that understands you. And yes you are weird but I think it's in a good way. It takes certain people to appreciate the odd things in people and therefor they no longer become odd.

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  17. Communication is the key but u have to kno ur lover everyone has diff ways of expressing there thoughts body language is big im a big communicator now im goin thru a similiar situation where the person im with isnt it causes alot of frustration on both parts

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  18. The crazy thing is for a woman like you Tayana this none talking thing might not work in your favor because your man might go from yelling at you to chocking the shit out of you lol!

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  19. HAHAHA hold the hell up! A mofo kno the deal, he ain't touching this! Wait did u say CHOKING??? Ummmmm that sounds sexy as shit.......no boo boo don't make me pass out just teach me a lesson!!! LMAO Heeheehee

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  20. You know T every time I try to put the pressure on you, You impress me even more! Well done! ;}

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  21. Thanks sweetness! Imma BAD GIRL (usher) my theme song.....lol

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  22. Nothing wrong for us to enjoy alittle silence

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  23. some of these comments are pretty cool hey and the best part is that you can feel safe in this exploration cos you have each other near and can reassure each other with each touch you get to place on their skin, through trying to find the ...right words to express your love, but end up falling in silence anyway because the clumsiness of the verbal language does not seem to be able to closely represent how you feel...! but what about if the silence wasn't used as a medium to explore each other and share that deep intensity that comes with the connection of the mind body and spirit........what one day your partner kisses you, a tender kiss, one that at the time there was a shift in you that told you to take notice, but you didnt pay much mind to it....and that was the last time you saw them.....they didnt return home, they wouldnt answer your calls, your messages or your pleas for them to say why....what if that silence was pure torture...

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