Thursday, February 10, 2011

Book Of Question Love&Sex number 55 picked by Mike:

Has your parents' relationship influenced you more as a healthy model to imitate or an unhealthy one to avoid?

38 comments:

  1. I think I kind of told myself that I didn't want to do anything that my mom did beside be as clean as she was when it came to cleaning the house.

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  2. i love my mum and dad so much and I believe maybe on some level I chose them...I dont see my parents showing a lot of affection towards each other, I am yet to see them hold hands, hug each other openly, or call each other by affectionate ...terms ...they are not perfect by any stretch..and they certainly have hurt each other...but even through their faults they have still negotiated a relationship that still works for them...i see that they must really love each other, maybe its because they appreciate (now they are older) that they were allowed to live and make mistakes and still know that that they had someone who would says 'you hurt me, you have made me frustrated and mad...but do i love you enough to love you with all your faults...do i have the strength not to let the saddness and dissappointment of what you have done change me forever...and the answer i have always seen from my parents has been the same answer i replicate with only one person in this world

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  3. That's nice Karyn and is this one person the reason for your last name change?

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  4. fuk knows Anthony....sorry bout the language...i believe i would have changed anything for this one person....in the end i just end up runing rings around myself

    and McCue is the name I am born to....Miller is my mum's side but i am just ka...ryn

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  5. So why the sudden change of name my lady? I think I like Miller more. I have to get use to McCue.

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  6. I likethe look of Miller and it felt right......but geez it caused a stir with my sister ...she reckoned that i needed to change me and my name back ..and that i was a McCue blah blah !!! she missed the point though which will probably al...ways be lost on her ...i dont have the energy to justify why i wanted to acknowledge my mums side...

    besides if we rewind it back....didnt she change her surname when she got married..what's that about....you gotta love older sisters....she is good to argue with tho ....love you sis...the stalking bitch will be reading these posts too......lol..

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  7. Im getting a tattoo which is going to represent my identity and include the both names.....that is unless someone doesnt come and sweep me off my feet and make me want to change my name for him lol .....

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  8. And you could always get Lewis tattooed on your lower back. I heard it is going to be Really popular this year. You might as well get the jump on starting the trend Down Under ;}

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  9. Trust me Almost Every Woman will be a Lewis in 2011! So I am giving you a heads up so you can skip the the line Karyn! There is probably already 30 girls that read this with in that hour that I posted it that is on their way to the tattoo shop right now!

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  10. MY PARENTS SHOWED THE GOOD AND THE WRONG BUT THEY ALWAYS SHOWED SUPPORT, FAITHFULNESS, LOVE AND KINDNESS, AND BOTH WERE GREAT PARENTS TO ME AND MY SIBLINGS... AND THEN THERE IS THE B.S THEY WENT THRU THAT I WOULD'NT NECESSARILY WANT TO IMITATE OR LOOK UP TO..... AND THERE IT IS!

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  11. Does anyone know what dreams mean? If I told you my dream from last night could you break it down for me?

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  12. Google it. . remember thats wu t i did. . .i cant remember the website

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  13. Oh yeah you did do that, wow that was so long ago lol!

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  14. Maybe Marsha. Is that your way of asking me to tell you what my dream was about? Sneaky! ;}

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  15. LOL!!! Well it was very deep to me but NON SEXUAL so do you still want to hear it since there is no sex in it?

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  16. YES!!!! Stop keeping me waiting!!!! LOL!!!! Just the dang on dream already!!

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  17. Yea. Include me. I wont have to pic you in your ungodlyness. But I'm good on breaking down dreams. I do mines alot and is barely wrong

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  18. OK well again this has very special to me but it was So Strange! Since my birth the MOST special person to me was my grand father. He pasted away in 2002 after a stroke that had him fall and hit his head. He never recovered and past away four months to the day he had his stroke. So in all these years this is ONLY the second dream that I had of him. Well this is where it get's strange. In the dream I had a dream of him being hit and killed by a car. I woke up in the dream and got a phone call that he was hit and killed by a car. So I rushed to the scene and it was so strange but as I was rushing there it hadn't happen yet and I was showing up just as it was happening. It was so messed up because I watched him being killed in the dream in my dream and then again after I woke up a received that call. So I had to watch him die twice. It was like torture!!! I woke up after I rushed to him and he stopped breathing. And that was it.

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  19. Well you all asked. But I told you it was very deep to me. I know usually I am all smiles and you probably thought it was that type of a dream right? I'm being strong about it right now. So far so good. I woke up this morning and hit the weights thinking I WISH I could of got to the person driving the car!

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  20. Well Mr. Lewis I'm sorry about your grandfather...but to my interpretation( I could be wrong) your grandfather represent your life....the car represent, Are you where you supposed to be in your life today or are you at a stop sign? The phone call represent opportunities that were to take place in your life at that time but you where not in position to receive them....therefore, they became missed opportunities. Lastly, the opportunities stop breathing because you have to breath life back into them in order for them to be presented to you again but you will have to be in the right position to receive them....this is just my interpretation!

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  21. WOW that was really deep Marsha. Thank you for the interpretation.

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  22. I think I will share this with my grand mom because we are really close and talk about almost everything but I don't know how she will take it. She is married to someone else but still the dream was so strange with me seeing him die twice.

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  23. Yeah! I understand and it will be a good idea to share it with your grandmom...Dang somebody got on some strong cologne in this office it's burning my eyes!

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  24. LOL! Speaking of burning eyes, my eyes were burning so bad last night as I was up late playing video games. That has never happen to me like that before. When I got up today they burnt all the way to me dropping my kids off and till I got to work. I had to go into the bathroom and splash my eyes with water. Strange!

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  25. I've been there too..I know that feeling

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  26. I'm just use to staying up late and being fine. But hey I guess I am getting old! And I never knew that Markita was your daughter.

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  27. Yes that's my baby girl....Mini me!!! LOL!!! And if you think I'm a mess...she's worse than me....

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  28. Dreams are mixed with ur every day thoughts surrounding worries and fantasies the thoughts u think but put back in ur mind n keep to urself dreams bring them out

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  29. So where the hell would this dream come from Suzette? What could I have been thinking of subconsciously to dream such a thing?

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