Wednesday, February 2, 2011
I have a scenario, give me your feed back.
There is a woman, she have been in a relationship for 8 years. Things were up and down like any other relationship. She has 3 kids together with her fiance. Two days ago she found out that he has been cheating with a female who is 17. They have been together for 2 years and she is pregnant by him. What should she do about her relationship with her fiance? Talk To Me!
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cut his dick off!!!! Empty out the bank accounts, throw his stuff out, go down to the courts get him for child support....and finally get a hold of the 17 year olds father
ReplyDeleteand when i say out.....out the window, out the door, whatever! Do not pack for him
ReplyDeleteI'd bounce...but not just because he cheated. There's so much wrong in this scenario. He was f@cking this chick unprotected; she wasn't just a jumpoff cuz he carried on with her for 2 years; he started side relationship with a 15-year old (17-2=15); I'm going to have a lifelong reminder of it if I were to stay (the child); the trust is gone; and he showed an utter lack of regard for our relationship and our family. So fuck him...keep it movin
ReplyDeleteKiKi there are 3 kids!!!
ReplyDelete@Ant...if this "girl" didn't know or suspect for 2 years....come on...usually you know
Really? thats not even worth a paragraph answer . . .it will hurt . . .but walk away. . . .this isnt a one night stand . . .where lust can b blamed . . .2 years! so he been sexin both wit no condoms . . .so its obvious he dont care about her health, or her period
ReplyDeleteEVER SEE "BIG LOVE" WORK IT OUT.. LOL .... NO SERIOUSLY THAT IS DEVASTATING,,, POOR GIRL.. AND THE 17 YRD OLD WAS TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF BY HIM TOO.. WHILE I TOTALLY AGREE WITH KERRIE.. I SAY WALK AWAY AND DONT LOOK BACK,... GO TO COURT GET THE KIDS, GET THE SUPPORT AND MOVE ON.. OBVIOUSLY HE DONT LOVE EITHER OF THEM, SO ITS OVER.. OH YES KERRIE AND DEF GET AHOLD OF THAT 17 GIRL FAM... BUT THESE DAYS THEY MAY NOT EVEN CARE..SAD BUT TRUE..
ReplyDeleteHow old is this man?
ReplyDeleteThey may not care..... But hell, they will know!!!!
ReplyDeletewell lets see.....it is "ant's" scenerio.....they have been together 8 years.....lets say atleast 30!.............. how old Ant
ReplyDelete@Kerrie I would never stay in a relationship without trust just because you have children together. Children see more than you think. And I would never want them growing up thinking it's okay to be with someone you don't trust or disrespects you. But that's me...many women and men put up with it everyday "because of the kids"
ReplyDelete@Kiki.... me either.... treat me right, or i will bounce, but if i have 3 kids.....hes gotta go!!! ...................oh no.....i don't put up with that aoll......
ReplyDeletei see.......i thought you put there was only 1 child..........
ReplyDeletehey so now he'll have 4 kids that he doesn't take care of, and what he did to the first girl, he'll do to the next....no doubt
I never said to stop him from seeing his children. We just wouldn't be together
ReplyDeletewow...... i never said it either!!!!
ReplyDeleteso Ant, which one of your friends is this? lol
ReplyDeleteShe she pack it up and move on. He obviously doesn't care about her. The man needs some help, normal grown men don't sleep with 15 year olds.
ReplyDelete@Antonio i think the key word here is "man"...cause he is obviosly a little boy
ReplyDeleteWOW you woman are CRAZY!!! It's funny how woman just THINK they can pick up and walk away with their children as if a man had nothing to do with them! WOW!!! No where did it said he wasn't a good father and did not take care of his kids!
ReplyDeleteI think she should end the relationship of course and have joint custody with the kids.
ReplyDelete@Ant we never said to stop him from seeing his kids...
ReplyDeleteAnd Kiki it's Shakeem lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeletectfu
ReplyDeleteIt is not you lie"
ReplyDeleteIF this person live in NJ the age of consent for sexual conduct is 16. Meaning that the person have to be 16 to have sex with an adult...According to your calculation this man have been having sexual relation with this young lady since she was 15....if he is more than 4yrs older than she, He can be charge with statutory rape....If I was the fiancé, Mother, Father or guardian of that young lady I will definitely have him arrested...and cry later
ReplyDelete;} I hope he doesn't read this lol!
ReplyDeleteAnd Kiki but you said take the kids as if they are property.
ReplyDeleteno she is the mom, go and file for child support
ReplyDeleteI'd take myself out the situation is all to much sickness out here 4 me 2 be wit sum1 dat wants ev1 haha but if the baby was his wit the other chick my kids of course wud no that chils simply becuz I think all kids should no who thier siblings r so when they r older things wont b akward 4 them....
ReplyDeletei have to admit, my daughter knows all her siblings(that we know of) that is the one great thing, i used to not keep her from her father, but now i do!!!
ReplyDeleteAnt....been there, did that....she will have to go to a homeless shelter!!! you really wanna do this
ReplyDelete???
Hey that would be what she would have to do but she also would have to pay child support lol!
ReplyDeleteThere r ways around tht...n ne smart woman dnt move into a man house..its either het house our both names on the lease
ReplyDeleteKerrie do you REALLY think if they went to court the courts are going to want the kids going to a homeless shelter and not be with their father just because he cheated?
ReplyDeleteLeave him, she deserves better
ReplyDeleteLeave his ass stay wit family till she gets on her feet if thats an option hes been playing both of them whether the jump off realizes it definitley not to go under god with him she should really plan out how whats the best for her and those kids i would if i was her talk to the kids but not let them kno what happened jus let them kno they had their differences let him do the explainin about the extra child
ReplyDeleteHmmm?? she should pray about it and if she is lead to leave then leave if she is lead to stay and work it out so be it. Marriage is sacred and God sees ur 1st one as the one that counts. This is my opinion . The flesh is weak so it is hard but praying changes things.
ReplyDeleteThe more I think about it the more this shyt pisses me off .....even tho I need to b strong n calm for the kids I'm sorry its just in me to wanna torture this dude jus a lil....
ReplyDeleteno comment
ReplyDeleteIf this was me 1st I would be a woman and sit down and talk to the chick to find out whats what. Then i would convince the chick to partner up with me and set that nigga up. At the end of the day he ruined the lives of the kids and both ch...icks cause u don't kow what he was telling the both of them. I would keep quite for a while and set him up so good taking away his freedom, his money and his family cause he never thought bout those things while he was doing him and apparently he don't care about it thats why he was doing it
ReplyDeleteI'm out. He's a child predator and their kids could be next. Police, parents, custody
ReplyDeleteBreak it off immediately...the SOB is not worth marrying.:-)))
ReplyDeleteSiobhan aren't you taking it a little to far with that one? I know you would be hurt but DAMN!!! LOL
ReplyDeleteAnd hello Auntie I agree with you!
ReplyDeleteShe'll be ok....lol
ReplyDeleteDamn I was wondering where was your input Mike. I love hearing what you have to say!
ReplyDeleteDude really good to have a 2 year relationship with a fiance.. don't know how he got that off with a womans intuition lol
ReplyDeleteTaking it too far? He was dating a 15 year old child and got her pregnant at 17? That dude needs to be on To Catch a Predator ASAP!
ReplyDeleteLike riddle me this...how are you a grown man in a relationship with a 15 year old? What do you talk about? What do you have in common? NOTHING YOU PEDOPHILE! Where is Chris Hansen with the low key stroll in and "Take a seat" comment? Take this dude away.
ReplyDeleteLol but Siobhan being with a 15 year old is a bit much but messing with your own kids is taking it too far.
ReplyDeleteNot at all...if he went after the 15 year old perhaps he'll want easier access in the future. Why risk it? A sexual predator is exactly that.
ReplyDeleteShe not lyn toni had a friend who dad likes yunger women n nex thing u knw she at the police station.....can't trust thm
ReplyDeleteI would end the relationship, file for child support, and speak to a family member who has no problem being a middle person for us so that I don't have to speak to him for awhile and he can continue to be in his kids life.
ReplyDeleteHope this not bout u lol ... Any way I would be like that how u roll time for court CHILD SUPPORT TIME giving him my two fingers up @ him telling him have good life
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