Tuesday, December 21, 2010
Anthony L. Lewis New Marriage System
I think people should be engaged for about three years prior to marriage and after the second year they should move in together! This way you could really see if you love this person enough to want to be with them forever. Now I know some woman think if you move in together and not get married then the guy will never marry you but I believe it would be better to find out if the love isn’t there before marriage rather than after. This would mean whatever chemistry you thought you had or did have has simply ran out or was never really there from the start. So why try to force yourselves into marriage, you are only setting yourself up for failure. I think it would be better to split ways rather than having to get a divorce. Now I know a lot of people say, well Love is suppose to be strong enough to get you through the hard times but what they never consider is what if the love that you have isn't that strong enough to do so. You would of never known that until everything was made clear to you? So what do you think about Anthony L. Lewis Marriage System?
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wow .. like a ghost town .. lol
ReplyDeleteYeah tell me about it Linda. Where did I go wrong :( lol! But I am happy that I still have followers. So I still keep the entertainment coming even if most of it is from my facebook page.
ReplyDeleteSo lets read what people had to say about The Anthony L. Lewis New Marriage System.
ReplyDeleteSo let's here the answers to The Anthony L. Lewis New Marriage System:
ReplyDeleteI TOTALLY AGREE!!
ReplyDeleteI just think people are too inclined to to throw their lives together so fast after just meeting someone for a very short time. I was talking about this last week with someone so I wanted to bring it up. But if people followed a similar system as the one I described their would be less marriages but there would be more meaningful marriages as well and longer lasting too.
ReplyDeleteYou never know a person until you live with them. Can't wait to.see them comments on this!
ReplyDeleteI did the living with my *ex* for 13 months before we married ... that worked out forever now didn't it .. lol
ReplyDeleteHey Linda how the hell are you? And that is true Linda lol!
ReplyDeleteWell I agree but only 2 a certain degree, u will NEVER fully get to know a person so whether u living with them or not everyday that goes by u will find ur self gettn 2 know and understand sumthing new about that person that u didnt kno b4. Yet living with a person does give u a better insight on how they live and take care of home so I agree with Anthony on that point
ReplyDeletewell i think it does not matter how long you are engaged for, it is the treuth, and honesty, and loyalty.......most people think if they cheat or lie and did not get "caugfht" it is ok!!! WELL it is not!
ReplyDeleteand i lived with my ex-husband for 1.5 yrs before we got married
ReplyDeleteI am not talking about 1.5 years or 15 months but Three Straight Years before marriage, two of which you live together after a full year of being a couple! And Now Your Momma Knows!
ReplyDeletelook Ant....no matter how long you live together, or whatever you do, if one of the people wants to cheat and the opportunity is presented, they will...... weather you lived together for 40 yrs or not
ReplyDeleteWhy are you talking about cheating Kerrie? The Anthony L. Lewis New Marriage System is referring to creating a long lasting relationship. Do you want to start a topic regarding cheating? I can make a new post if you want.
ReplyDeleteno, i am just saying...no matter how long you live together....... it might not work!
ReplyDeleteYou are making it like the only way a relationship ends is with cheating. I think you have a lot of built up frustration regarding cheating Kerrie.
ReplyDeleteno, not really!!!!
ReplyDeleteOK just checking because you were the only one to bring that up and you kept dwelling on it.
ReplyDeleteyo anthony assorted chocolates is my ex erase him lol
ReplyDeleteOH WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OK I drop him/her right now!
ReplyDeleteOK LOL
ReplyDeleteOK it's done! That's crazy but I guess he figure that I wouldn't even figure it out and he was right because I had No Idea!!!
ReplyDeleteHUH
ReplyDeleteI was saying that when I got the friend request from Assorted Chocolates I had no idea that it was just someone that probably wanted to keep tracks on you.
ReplyDeleteLOL
ReplyDeleteI don't want to know EVERYTHING about my significant other. I just want to know that we can get along together in close quarters on the daily, and that the love, trust, respect, and passion is there. 3 years of engagement? Weren't we already together at least a year before we got engaged? No timetable needed...all things at its own pace.
ReplyDeleteThat could be the case about the length of time you were together before being engaged but I still say three years and two of which are you living together.
ReplyDeleteOK so today's Book Of Question Love&Sex question is number 35:
ReplyDeleteIf you learned that a 50-year-old woman was engaged to be married to a man of 21, what would your first reaction be? How would you feel differently if the ages were reversed so that the woman was 21 and the man 50?
immediate reaction is to think it not gone work...experience and maturity levels so different. But hey, sometimes reality is stranger than fiction. And motives could make them compatible...
ReplyDeleteCougar + sugar daddy =Drama! That about sums it up
ReplyDeleteI would be like "wow she must got it together! And if it was the guy that was older I would be like "that's what's up! I think who ever you like and as long as they like you back is fine with me.
ReplyDeleteHEY ITS WATEVER FLOATS THE NEXT INDIVIDUALS BOAT LOL... GET IN WHERE U FIT IN IS ALL I GOT ON IT LOVE HAS NO AGE
ReplyDeleteI'm in line to see The Green Hornet advance screening.
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